“She shuts down completely,” the insider shares. “She doesn’t want anyone around her—not her family, friends, or even Ben.”

Despite being one of Hollywood’s most powerful couples, it appears that Lopez’s approach to illness is all about self-care and space. Whether it’s a cold or something more serious, J.Lo prioritizes her personal time to recover in peace.

While Affleck is usually supportive and by her side, the source says, “Ben understands her need for solitude and respects it. He knows it’s nothing personal.”

Fans may wonder how the star balances her fiercely independent attitude with her public life, but one thing’s for sure: when Jennifer Lopez is sick, it’s her time to unplug and recharge—alone.